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Ashley Montagu:  A Brief Synopsis

of his Contributions

to Healthy Human Nurturing 

(Part I of II)

 

                                                            by Mizin P. Kawasaki, MD

 

                                                                                                                       

Ashley Montagu was an anthropologist, scientist, and humanist.  He passed away at the age of 94 in late 1999.  This essay was written in 1998 and

revised in 2006.

 

The birthright of healthy human development

 

Ashley Montagu deserves widespread recognition for being a most consistent, outspoken, and unswerving advocate for children.  For over sixty years, Dr. Montagu has written tirelessly, educating the general public about human development so that parents can encourage their children’s healthy growth and development.   

 

All the theories and ideas that Dr. Montagu has presented to readers in his many books are based on clear thinking and profound insight.  In the recent past, abundant scientific research supports convincingly Dr. Montagu’s many theories concerning human needs and the course of children's development.

 

The primary concept that Dr. Montagu has emphasized throughout his works is that all children deserve the birthright of healthy human development.  Regardless of ethnic, financial, or social standing, all children should be able to realize their potential as human beings.  

 

Two types of heredity

 

Dr. Montagu explains that human beings are born with two types of heredity:  genetic heredity and social heredity.  Human beings grow and develop as a result of the interaction of these two types of heredity. 

 

Genes manifest their characteristics as a result of their interaction with the environment, the social heredity.  Genes cannot exist independent of an environment because nature and nurture are completely interdependent.  Dr. Montagu states this unequivocally in his book Human Heredity, which was published more than 36 years ago. 

 

Now, although some scientists still debate the relationship between nature and nurture, the evidence points overwhelmingly in the direction of a mutually interdependent existence.  This explanation of heredity clarifies the importance of optimizing the nurturing environment in which human genes are modifiably expressed. 

 

As different as all human beings will always be, one commonality that all parents have is that they can optimize the nurturing environment in which their children develop.

 

The importance of prenatal influences

 

When we think of nurturing environments, we tend to overlook the environment in which pregnancy occurs.  Over 35 years ago, Dr. Montagu published a prescient book entitled Prenatal Influences.  He presents numerous theories about the impact of the gestational environment (that is, the mother's emotional and physical health) on the growth and development of the human fetus. 

 

Scientific research has confirmed the importance of the mother's health during pregnancy.  Some examples of altered maternal well-being that may lead to undesirable effects upon the fetus  include the following:  diabetes mellitus may cause numerous physical consequences for the developing fetus (increased body size, immaturity despite large size, potential hypoglycemia, cardiac anomalies, and other anomalies); maternal deficiency in folate may lead to neural tube defects in the fetus; maternal use of alcohol may lead to fetal alcohol syndrome; and  maternal smoking of cigarettes causes smaller gestational size for age and is associated with preterm birth. 

 

We have a great deal more to learn about how maternal emotional states affect developing fetuses during pregnancy.  What is evident is that women can improve the gestational environment of their fetuses, thus assuring fetuses a healthier womb in which to grow and develop.

           

Pregnancy

 

Dr. Montagu has explained pregnancy in a unique and enlightening manner.  Most individuals are familiar with the nine-month pregnancy, which Dr. Montagu designates as uterogestation.  The general understanding of this period of time is that the fetus grows and develops within its mother’s uterus so that it will be able to survive outside the womb as a newborn. 

 

Using his broad knowledge of anatomy, physiology, and anthropology, Dr. Montagu states that the human newborn emerges “half-done.” The newborn is immature at term, usually 266 1/2 days from conception, because his head is quite large. 

 

The average newborn's brain volume is large; it is approximately 330 cubic centimeters (cc) (Montagu, 1986, 55).  If the newborn were to continue to stay in utero for a more prolonged period of time, its rapidly growing brain would most certainly result in cephalopelvic disproportion (CPD).  In other words, the baby’s head would be too large to pass through the birth canal, and the lives of both the newborn and his mother would be endangered. 

 

The importance of labor

 

The question arises, then, as to when the human newborn should ideally be born.  The answer is after eighteen months of gestation, if not longer.  The “half-done” newborn actually needs at least another nine to ten months of “womb” environment outside of the womb to mature.  This is a period of time Dr. Montagu designates as being the exterogestation.  It is also around this age that the infant begins to crawl around under its own steam (Montagu 1989, 203).

 

Prior to exterogestation, mothers experience the pain of labor and delivery.  In his book Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin, Dr. Montagu clarifies the significance of the labor mothers experience during childbirth.  During labor, the uterine muscular contractions literally massage the skin of the fetus and stimulate the nervous, respiratory, cardiovascular, gastrointestinal, genitourinary, immunological, and endocrine systems

 

These are all the vital systems that the newborn will require to sustain life outside the womb.  The tactile stimulation the baby receives during labor appears to be crucial for immediate neonatal functioning. 

 

            Tactile stimulation

 

It is not well known that the skin is the external nervous system.  It arises from the same embryonic tissue, the ectoderm, as do the central and peripheral nervous systems.  Dr. Montagu notes that the prolonged labor of human beings, as compared to shorter labor of other mammals, ensures the adequate tactile stimulation of the fetus prior to birth. 

 

Other mammals lick their newborns soon after birth in order to ensure activation of vital organ systems.  In contrast, this sort of stimulation does not occur in human beings.  Since human beings have no instincts (see The Nature of Human Aggression by Ashley Montagu for a detailed discussion of this subject), the normal physiological occurrence of labor acts to ensure adequate stimulation for the human newborn as it traverses the birth canal.  Comprehending the importance of labor from this perspective may enable mothers to endure better the hardships of labor and birth.

 

Criticism of modern obstetric practices

 

In a bold and revolutionary essay published in The Humanization of Man in 1962, Dr. Montagu criticizes the obstetrical system and advocates total reform.  Dr. Montagu notes that obstetricians of his day opt to make their own convenience a priority over the health and well-being of healthy pregnant women and their newborns. 

 

He notes that it is easier for doctors to meet their patients at hospitals where a staff is prepared to assist them.  Obstetricians encourage their healthy pregnant patients to have their healthy newborns in germ-ridden institutions.  There is, however, no medical basis for such a massive move toward hospitalization of pregnant women. 

 

A better birth for women and newborns

 

Dr. Montagu courageously proposes a plan that would allow pregnant women to give birth to their newborns in the familiar environment of their own homes and in the presence of loved ones.  This would make the birth of the newborn a joyful family event, not a medical illness.

 

In order to provide midwives with back-up assistance, Dr. Montagu proposes that every community would maintain a log of pregnant women and their due dates.  At the expected time of birth, an ambulance that is fully equipped for neonatal and obstetrical medical emergencies would be available outside the home where the birth is expected.  

 

A physician could also be on-call in the event of an emergency.  Even today, the cost of such a system would be negligible compared to the health care costs we incur by hospitalizing almost all pregnant women and their newborns. 

 

Advocacy of midwives

 

Numerous studies reveal that the use of midwives is associated with decreased medical and surgical intervention, less use of anesthesia, fewer episiotomies, and lower cost, among other benefits.  In recent decades, women have become better educated about alternative birthing methods.

 

In response, the medical community has begun to provide natural birthing centers.  There is still a long way to go, however, toward reversing the technological trends of the past 75 years.  Moreover, little thought is being expended on making Dr. Montagu’s humanistic vision of home birthing the norm in society once more. 

 

Dehumanizing hospital births

 

It is important to note that Dr. Montagu’s primary objection to the hospitalization of healthy pregnant women and their newborns is that it is a dehumanizing experience.  In the hospital, a pregnant woman is often left alone while the nurses and doctors tend to other patients or matters.  In the home, on the other hand, family members can support and comfort her.  

Naturally, the scenario is more complicated when there are other children because they worry about their absent mother.  The home is the best birthing center because there will be no interference with the mother-infant bonding. 

 

In fact, the newborn is welcomed right into the bosom of the family, which is a nest of warm and loving human beings.  A newborn can breastfeed without the meddling of a nursing staff that often, however unintentionally, interferes with the bonding between mother and infant by delaying immediate breastfeeding. 

 

Breastfeeding benefits to mothers

 

As Dr. Montagu points out, the benefits of breastfeeding work on both the mother and the infant.  Breastfeeding immediately after birth produces fundamental physiological benefits for the mother by helping to contract the uterus back to its normal size, arresting hemorrhaging from the torn uterine blood vessels, and completing labor with the detachment and ejection of the placenta. 

 

Mother-infant bonding

 

Breastfeeding also enables the mother to establish a loving relationship with the newborn; the earlier, the better.  As Dr. Montagu notes, it is not the breastfeeding alone that is important but the whole relatedness which the mother feels toward her newborn. 

 

This related then enables the mother to nurture the optimal growth and development of her newborn.  In the warm environment of a loving family, the mother can best develop this relatedness to her baby and experience the humanizing wonders of giving birth.

 

Maturation in the newborn period

 

Dr. Montagu points out that the human newborn faces a long period of gradual maturation.  Not only does the newborn have to learn about its new environment, but his body has to undergo physiological maturation of its organ systems.  This period of time is called the exterogestation.

 

The exterogestation enables the newborn to adjust and mature so that it can be assured of postnatal existence.  The importance of acknowledging the exterogestation is to comprehend the extreme immaturity of the human newborn and to recognize its needs.  This period of exterogestation lasts from the postnatal period until an infant can crawl or move about on its own, which occurs at about nine to ten months of age. 

 

Tremendous brain growth during infancy

 

By the end of the first year of life, brain growth has more than doubled to about 850 cc, or 60% of its adult size (Montagu, 1986, 55).  Understanding this aspect of human development is quite important since most individuals perceive the human newborn as a mature entity.

 

The incredibly immature newborn

 

This is believed despite the fact that the human newborn is completely at the mercy of his environment.  Simple observation of a newborn clarifies his helpless nature.  He needs warmth and nourishment; cannot move purposely; cannot speak and communicate his needs; cannot control his excretory and eliminatory functions; and so forth. 

 

Despite these obvious signs of dependency, the physiological immaturity of the newborn is hardly respected.  Meanwhile, the newborn’s body is challenged to do the following:  breathe on its own; have a functioning circulatory system to provide oxygen and nutrients to its entire body; adjust its gastrointestinal system to the new function of ingestion, digestion, and elimination; use its nervous system to assess not only its own physiological status but to adjust to its new environment. 

 

These are just a few of the changes that the newborn must undergo in order to live outside the womb in the immediate postnatal period.  Dr. Montagu explains the physiological and anatomical changes that the newborn experiences succinctly in his book Touching. 

 

If we all gained deeper insight into the great physiological and environmental demands made upon the newborn, then perhaps we would eradicate the mistaken view of the newborn as being fully prepared to survive outside the womb.  What is clear is that the newborn undergoes a period of transformation that does not occur instantly but gradually.


A mother’s care

 

This period of exterogestation requires that a human newborn be in the constant care of a loving and nurturing human being who can learn to respond appropriately and speedily to his many needs.  Who is the most ideal person to fulfill this role?  It is the biological mother, as long as she loves and cares deeply for her newborn. 

 

The challenge is to open our minds to understand the role of mothers is so crucial to the healthy development of children.  During pregnancy, women undergo physiological changes that will enable them to provide the primary means to care for their newborns, which is breastfeeding. 

 

Breastfeeding must be learned

 

Breastfeeding is not instinctive.  As with all else in human life, women must learn how to breastfeed their children.  Ideally, this would occur by observing other breastfeeding mothers prior to giving birth themselves and making use of the large library of breastfeeding books and other educational resources that is now available. 

 

By educating themselves, women can prepare themselves for the task of breastfeeding, which is a natural nurturing capability that is often misunderstood.  Breastfeeding is irreplaceable because the benefits are not simply nutritional but wholly nurturing.  The breasts are a source of warmth, comfort, nourishment, and love, as well as the assured presence of an available mother. 

 

An emphasis on breast milk

 

Given the technological culture in which we live, it is not surprising that there are many researchers who are attempting to discover and quantify the chemical basis of human milk.  The positive aspect of all this research is that there is a convincing and rapidly growing body of evidence that confirms the immunological and nutritional benefits of breastfeeding. 

 

The research is primarily concerned only with the physiological and biochemical functions of human milk.  Discussions of breastfeeding tend to emphasize mainly the nutritional benefits of breastfeeding, and they often overlook the enormous psychological and physiological advantages breastfeeding secures for both mother and infant. 

 

The human element behind breastfeeding

 

The mechanical aspect of breastfeeding sometimes overshadows the art of nursing and may undermine the human element behind breastfeeding:  the mother-infant relationship.  The presence of a loving, caring, and nursing mother in the environment of her infant provides the ideal external womb for the fulfillment of the child's physical potentialities as well as its behavioral potentialities.  

 

Dr. Montagu has written often of the humanizing role mothers have on their children.  With respect to breastfeeding, nursing mothers are not merely repositories of milk but the providers of the warmth, love, responsiveness, and touching that enable infants to learn to love as they are loved. 

 

Intangible benefits of breastfeeding

 

These aspects of breastfeeding cannot be measured quantitatively by researchers.  Nevertheless, they are as vital to the nurturing of infants as is the milk. 

 

The art of breastfeeding, as mothers around the world will attest, lies in the willingness of mothers to give to their children from the heart and of themselves literally, which is a feat that technology can never replicate.  

           

What makes us human is the relationship of mutually beneficial love that exists between individuals, and nothing exemplifies this better than a loving, breastfeeding mother-infant dyad.  This is a subject that Dr. Montagu has discussed so eloquently in many books.  

 

A mother forges love

 

In 1971, Dr. Montagu’s book The Elephant Man received its first printing, and accomplished its purpose of elucidating the power of a loving relationship between a mother and her son.  

 

In the late 19th century, a British surgeon named Sir Frederick Treves discovered a grotesquely deformed man named Joseph Merrick.  The latter was afflicted with a genetic disorder.  (In light of information available at the time, Dr. Montagu assessed the diagnosis to be neurofibromatosis.) *

 

Huge tumors grew over various parts of Joseph Merrick’s body, including his head and arms.  He was a terrifying sight.  When Dr. Treves found this young man, he was an attraction at a freak show in London. 

 

Dr. Treves, with the assistance of his hospital's chairman and contributions from readers of the LondonTimes, was able to secure Joseph Merrick regular meals as well as assistance for his care in a clean, secluded hospital room. 

 

As time passed, it became clear that Joseph Merrick was a sensitive, literate, and well-spoken young man who appreciated and respected his benefactors.  He was able to live the last few years of his life in the hospital under the auspices of caring individuals. 

 

According to his own account, Dr. Treves believed that Joseph had been unloved and abandoned early in life.  Dr. Treves, however, was uncertain as to why Joseph Merrick, despite experiencing humiliating and horrendous episodes throughout his short life because of his awful and repulsive appearance, never expressed hatred for his tormentors.  Joseph was a gentle, loving person who appreciated beauty, kindness, and friendship. 

 

Dr. Montagu writes that Dr. Treves was mistaken about Joseph’s early childhood and theorized instead that Joseph must have had a truly loving mother.  She must have taught her son how to love and gave him the strength to endure the terrible travails of his life. 

 

Dr. Montagu’s views of Joseph’s upbringing were confirmed by Michael Howell and Peter Ford's book The True History of the Elephant Man, which was published in 1980.  Apparently, Joseph was born a “perfect baby.”  He was loved and cared for by his mother until her death, a few months short of his eleventh birthday. 

 

There was some evidence of his genetic disorder during his early childhood years, and it became progressively more pronounced as he matured.  After his mother's death, Joseph’s father married a widow who did not take kindly to her stepson. 

 

Joseph was soon forced to work, but his physical deformities impaired his ability to perform well at work.  From thence onward, life became a hardship for Joseph Merrick.  Despite all his horrendous experiences, nevertheless, he maintained a love of life and respect for humanity.  Such is the power of a mother's love on her offspring. 

 

Dr. Montagu writes:

 

The basic plan of the mother-infant relationship, from conception to birth, and onward, is that the loving behavior of the mother and child for one another confers survival and growth benefits upon each other.  In this beautiful mother-and-child interconnectedness and interaction the basic pattern is laid out for humanity to follow toward the achievement of healthy growth and development, that is, to live as if to live and love were one. (Montagu 1996, 86)

 

In his many books, Dr. Montagu emphasizes the supreme importance of a mother's love, and he describes the humanizing effect of such love.  In the case of Joseph Merrick, it is clear that his mother's love enabled him to express the most noble of human attributes despite the adversity he faced in life.

 

The importance of a mother’s role

 

Dr. Montagu has written extensively about the profound significance of a mother’s role in children's lives and has been a stalwart advocate for women.  The first edition of his seminal book The Natural Superiority of Women was published in 1952, and a fifth and revised edition came out in 1992.  

 

In this book, Dr. Montagu produces a forceful argument for women to realize their potential as humanizers of all human beings.  He has written what most mothers have felt from the heart:  “The genius of woman is the genius of humanity, the ability to love others more than one loves oneself, and love, humanity, is the supreme form of intelligence (Montagu 1992, 199).

 

The essence of humanity

 

It is the selfless dedication to child-rearing, the nurturing of children, that is the essence of our humanity and the clearest expression of human intelligence.  Women who act upon this truth (and men who support these women) enable children to realize their potential as human beings and facilitate the development of a nurturing and humane world. 

 

What begins in the home will naturally be transmitted to society.  Positive and loving life to life interaction begins in the home between mother and child.  This nurturing elicits the highest good and love in human beings.  

 

It is this humane way of life that Dr. Montagu praises so highly.  He states:

 

Humankind must learn to understand that all other forms of intelligence must be secondary to the developed humane, compassionate intelligence, for any form of intelligence that is not primarily implanted into a matrix of humane feeling and understanding is the most dangerous thing in the world...It is (compassionate) intelligence that the world will always stand in need of.  It is that kind of intelligence with which women are so abundantly endowed.  It is that kind of intelligence that it is their destiny to teach the world. (Montagu 1992, 199).


Compassionate intelligence

 

Dr. Montagu recognizes the profound ability of women to enable children to fulfill their potential as human beings.  Through human interaction, as idealized by the loving relationship between mother and child, compassionate intelligence is nurtured.  It is truly a wonder of human intelligence that mothers can be so intuitively aware of children’s needs. 

 

To love and care for others is the ultimate sign of one’s humanity, and women have the capability to teach all others how to be human.  A humane education, instilled in both boys and girls, will enable children to develop compassionate intelligence, the intelligence that is central to the good mental health of human beings. 

 

Compassionate intelligence is the foundation of parenting that encourages children’s development into empathetic, altruistic, loving, and cooperative adults.  We also need to develop intelligence by acquiring knowledge, but the limitations of gathering knowledge without developing wisdom is manifest in the history of humankind. 

 

Supreme womanly intelligence

 

To deter the trend that encourages greater inhumanity in our world, women need to make use of the supreme intelligence with which we are endowed.   The primary emphasis of such intelligence is to rear young children so that they can fulfill their birthright to healthy human development. 

 

Proper awareness of the essential nature of a mother’s presence in her children’s lives must be proclaimed to refute the deeply mistaken notion that a mother’s care is no different from that offered by any other caregiver. 

 

Faulty modern education

 

Mothers are not dispensable by any means, and Dr. Montagu has been able to identify a major cause of the ignorance that surrounds the current understanding of the mother-child relationship.  The modern educational system fails to teach women and men the importance of human nurturing and human development.

 

Dr. Montagu faults the male-dominated educational institutions for failing to teach women and men the importance of mothering and nurturing.  Modern education willfully overlooks the important occupation of motherhood. 

 

In an essay published in The Humanization of Man (1962, pp. 189-190), Dr. Montagu writes of the confusion and frustration that he observed among college-educated women.  The relevance of his observations lies in the persistence of conflicts that educated women face even today, as we approach the end of the twentieth century. 

 

Dr. Montagu writes of women who stay at home with their children, only to feel that their B.A. degrees are wasted, and women who opt to return to work, only to feel frustrated for not being excellent homemakers. 

 

Unprepared for motherhood

 

Women are taught that they can do anything with their talents and intelligence; should seek opportunities to use their given and acquired talents; and should become capable workers in their respective fields.   Once women become mothers, however, they find themselves ill-prepared to meet the demands of motherhood. 

 

Women’s education does not prepare them for the challenge of being excellent mothers.  Instead, the demands of motherhood and work outside the home create inner turmoil.  Women’s ability and desire to nurture their offspring may conflict with the pursuit of goals that they have been educated to value, namely success in work and leisure. 

 

With the ever-increasing pace of life and the continuing advances in technology and communication, the inconspicuous benefits of stay-at-home mothering to humanity seem to keep diminishing in value. 

 

Women are educated as if they are men

 

Dr. Montagu notes that most coeducational and many women’s colleges use curricula that were originally created for the education of men.  As women are educated to be like men, there is an underlying assumption that women who do not act like men are, in effect, not realizing their talents.

 

As a result, the worthy work of mothering is ignored.  While women have the potential to accomplish far more than men, simply because they can bear and nurture children, many women pursue a far less challenging course in life:  they simply act like men. 

 

As Dr. Montagu has observed, confusion about women’s role in the home as mothers wreaks havoc upon family life.  The inevitable consequence is that both parents and children experience dissatisfaction with life.


* Subsequent research indicates that Joseph Merrick might have had Proteus Syndrome.



Continue to Ashley Montagu—Part II

 

 

 

 

Works Cited


Montagu, Ashley. 1966. On being human. New York: Henry Schuman.

———.1970. A scientist looks at LOVE. Phi Delta Kappan, 51(9): 466-

467. 

———. 1971. What is a child? National Elementary Principal 51 (1):8-16.

———. 1973. Ashley Montagu on the meaning of education. College and

University Business 54(4):35-38.  

———. 1976. The nature of human aggression. New York: Oxford

University Press.

———. 1979. Breastfeeding and its relation to morphological, behavioral,

and psychocultural development. Breastfeeding and food policy in

a hungry world.

———. 1986. Touching: The human significance of the skin. New York:

Harper & Row.

———. 1992. The natural superiority of women. New York: Collier

Books.

———. 1989. Growing young. Massachusetts: Bergin & Garvey.

———. 1996. The elephant man. 3rd ed. Lafayette: Acadian.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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